Ever Hear Of Generativity?

Generativity is the ability to love beyond your own backyard. It’s having concern about future generations and making the world a better place. Remember that old Coke commercial – “I’d like to teach the world to sing in perfect harmony.”? That’s where my mind goes – an idealistic scene on a hill with everyonesmiling and […]
Be Wise, Not Foolish

In the Bible, specifically Proverbs, there’s a lot of contrast between the wise woman and the foolish woman. I want to pause for a sec and take a peek at the meaning of “wise.” Wise: Having or showing 1. Experience, 2. Knowledge, and 3. Good judgment. Experience is a teacher – it teaches us what […]
The Magnificent Feather: A Lesson in Manifestation and Trust

Neville Goddard, the legendary teacher of manifestation, often encouraged his students to use simple, tangible exercises to build their belief in the power of creating their reality. One of his most famous techniques is the blue feather exercise: envision finding a blue feather to prove to yourself how effortlessly you can manifest. When I first […]
The Inner Game

In 1974, Random House published a book called The Inner Game of Tennis by Timothy Gallwey. This book went on to influence dozens of coaches who gifted this book to players. Al Gore gave this book to his staff; ltzhak Perlman recommended it to aspiring violinists; Billy Jean King and Jimmy Carter were BIG fans […]
Bacon, Eggs, and Full Commitment: How to Stop Half-Assing Your Own Life

When it comes to bacon and eggs, the chicken makes a contribution – but the pig? The pig makes a commitment. At a Jewish wedding, the bride and groom smash the glass after they’ve said their vows. Why? To remind themselves: there’s no going back. This is forever. We live our lives in the same […]
Be It Till You See It vs Fake It Till You Make It

This quote is attributed (originally) to Aristotle: “To be a virtuous woman, you must first act like a virtuous woman … “BUT – We know that confidence comes out of genuine accomplishment and work, not pretending! Amy Cuddy, author of Presence, says, “Don’t fake it till you make it. Fake it till you become it.” […]
Is Overthinking Holding You Back?

We THINK we have no control over our thoughts. As a matter of fact, I bet you’ve said something like this before- • “Sorry, I was lost in my thoughts … “• “My thoughts got away from me … “• “I got carried away by a thought … “ The plain truth is, we don’t […]
Our Tendency To Overthink

Jon Acuff brilliantly calls this the soundtrack of your life. There were lots of “Aha’s” on Monday – I saw them in the comments, so go watch Monday’s show if you haven’t yet! Every show this week will be layered on top of the prior day’s show. Yesterday, we discussed creating three actions to change […]
Conversations Around Invisibility

Conversations Around Invisibility: Why It Stings, Why It Feels Heavier, and How to Rewrite the Script Lately, my TikTok has been blowing up with women chiming in on something raw and real: feeling invisible. Some say it cuts them to the bone, that they feel overlooked, disregarded, irrelevant. Others? They’re grateful for it – like […]