Fake It Till You Make It? That’s GARBAGE…Do This Instead!
Be it till you see it – NOT Fake it till you make it.“To be a virtuous woman, you must first act like a virtuous woman … ” – Aristotle Confidence comes from genuine accomplishments and work. (But we knew that already) Not fromPRETENDING!! Amy Cuddy, author of Presence, says, “Don’t fake it till you […]
Be It Till You See It — Not “Fake It Till You Make It”
God bless Mary Kay Ash, but she was dead wrong. Faking it is not just a nice way to say lie, pretend, and be disingenuous; it’s flat out a killer of mental health. Fakery builds nothing but pretend. Smoke and mirrors are not the way to build an authentic life. Fakery might seem real, but […]
Wise Women Take Out the Garbage
The dictionary defines authenticity as the quality of being genuine and real. Of UNDISPUTED origins; genuine, NOT A COPY of anything or anyone else! (Cool, right?) To be authentic is to be true to yourself.• Your values• Your personality• Your spirit• Your ideas That means your honesty is your moral compass, your core values that […]
Visionary Thinking: Creating a Future Bigger Than Your Past
You were not meant to live on shampoo, rinse, and repeat. You weren’t built to loop the same week, month, and year over and over again like some weird Pinterestversion of Groundhog Day. But if you’re being honest … when was the last time you actually let yourself dream? Not a to-do list. Not a […]
Stop Faking, Start Being!
We live (unknowingly) in our subconscious most of the time. For example, we drive somewhere, immersed in our thoughts, and by the time we reach our destination, we realize we don’t even remember the drive! Bruce Lipton, the author of Biology Of Belief, said we live our lives like that 95% of the time, yikes! […]
Peter Crone Says, “Words Are Both Lock and Key.”
What we say to ourselves and about ourselves either grants freedom or locks us up. This is why when we say “Fake it,” we’re reinforcing something that we’re not good enough. Did you get that? That we have to fake it because we’re not good enough?? That hit me like a cosmic 2 x 4. […]
The Paradox of Change
“The curious paradox is when I accept myself exactly as I am, THEN I am able to change.” ~ Carl Rodgers The paradoxical theory of change means that when women allow themselves to be FULLY and AWARELY in touch with who they CURRENTLY are, change and growth emerge. It is inevitable and natural. This was […]
Full Empowerment: The Power You Forgot Was Yours
We’ve climbed the mountain together. Through the fog of Survival, the rocky terrain of Security and Self-Awareness, the sharp switchbacks of Self-Worth and Self-Expression … and now, here we are: Full Empowerment.This isn’t just another level. It’s the summit. The view from here changes everything. But let me be clear: full empowerment doesn’t look like […]
The Natural Tendency of Life is to Find Stability
James Clear, author of Atomic Habits, says, “The natural tendency of life is to find stability.”Our bodies do this automatically through homeostasis – for example, we have an average body temperature of 98.6 degrees. We aim for equilibrium or the Goldilocks Zone … we want our blood pressure to be just right; not too high […]